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Sunday, May 11, 2025

Delegating to Build the Capacity of Your Team to Achieve Greater Results



 

 

 

 

 

Think how much more you and your team could do if you had the high potential  people on your team as capable as you are. Think of the important work you could do if you could delegate more important things to your team members. Think about how much more energy you could put into leading your team to the next level if you could clear your plate of some of the work you have now.

One of the biggest tools you have for development is delegating. It’s important to think about delegating not just as assigning work, but as a technique for teaching, developing, and building capacity in your team.

The only true way to develop a potential successor is to delegate parts of your job so that someone else can practice doing it. By delegating tasks and projects to someone as though you were developing them  as a potential successor, you are actually maximizing that person’s development. 

Think about getting a couple of your high potential employees ready to step into your job. What could be more impactful to increasing the capacity of your team? This is relevant at every level of leadership. 

Here are three important ways to use the succession idea as you delegate for maximum development.  And if your goal is in fact to develop  a successor, these are still the right things to do:

1. Let them practice your work

The first part of someone learning your job is about the work. You need to give them opportunities to practice working at your level.

A lot of times we think the way to motivate our employees is to have them work on the most fun or interesting projects or the less important things. That works to a point, but it does not do anything to help get a high potential employee ready for your job. Face it, how much fun work do you get to do?

You need to give them opportunities to practice the difficult, mind-numbing, controversial, boring, unsupported, no-win kind of work you deal with every day when you wake up. 

What is the hardest and most distasteful thing you own? That’s what you give your high potential person! You give them the benefit of seeing what it is really like to be in your shoes. 

They get to suffer like you do. But they get to work on bigger stuff. They get access to your network and stakeholders. They have the chance to do something creative and heroic to get this done.

2. Let them practice your relationships

The next part of getting someone ready for your job is to make sure they are practiced and comfortable with the social requirements at the next level. They need to be someone that your peers feel comfortable with and want to include personally. They can’t stand out like a sore thumb as the junior person in the room, who has no basis for being there

You need to give your employee a chance to practice these relationships. Give them opportunities to present for you. Arrange one-on-one meetings with them and your peers. Send them as your delegate to your boss’s staff meeting when you are out of town. (Go out of town if this never happens.) If your  employee does not develop personal relationships with your boss and peers, they will not be capable of stepping in for you to free you up—because they will not be given the chance.

3. Let them practice your decisions 

Okay. Here is where the rubber meets the road. You need to give someone  a chance to practice making the decisions that you make. If you never delegate important  decisions, you are fooling yourself that you are truly developing someone.

Think about the next few months of decisions you need to make: investments, priorities, partnerships, product road map choices, mar­keting strategies. Give your top performer the task of owning the project and making the decisions. 

Let them feel the pressure of owning the outcome fully. Let them get the experience explaining, defending, and selling their choices. Let them get the experience fixing it if it goes wrong.

Is this scary? Yes. Might they choose wrong? Yes. Might they choose better than you? Also yes. The point is, if you never let them own and make key decisions, you are cutting off the single most important training you can give your successor. They will  never be ready for your job without owning key decisions.

Failure is the Key to Delegating 

Delegating some of your decisions opens up the risk of people getting it wrong. This can be scary but it is one of the most powerful ways that we all learn. There is no learning as great as that which comes after failing. 

Many managers treat delegating exactly the opposite, as if it is their role to prevent failure by watching closely, jumping in and taking over, and fixing or modifying if it is not going well. If you think about this from a learning perspective, what you have just done is to ensure that no real learning occurs. 

By always averting failure personally, you inadvertently take away the person’s motivation, need, ability to learn and ultimately the sense of ownership.
 

It’s kind of like teaching a child to ride a bike, by holding on and running alongside—and then never letting go—ever. For the rest of your life, you’ll be running alongside, holding on to prevent the potential fall. Think  how much farther they could ride, and how many new things they could discover, if you weren’t still hanging on, running alongside and slowing them down. 

So what happens if someone fails?

Well, when you fail it feels bad. It is embarrassing. It causes business problems,  It causes trouble for other people—so it becomes  a big personal motivator to fix it! Real learning occurs when you not only see  what you did wrong, but need to live with and deal with the consequences of what you did wrong.

By creating the safety net and filling in all the hard parts for them, the person never really learns and never gets to truly experience what it means to succeed. But if you let a smart person fail, they will figure it out. Isn’t that how you got good at what you do? By doing it—trial and error, feedback, trying again. A capable person will learn how to really do it well if you give them a chance.

Also, if you always swoop in to save the day, you are ensuring that they will never get any better at the task than you are. You are putting an artificial cap on their development. Why not give them the chance to get even better at it than you are?

I have often delegated things that I thought I was pretty good at, and had my employee blow me away with their ability to exceed my capabilities. This, to me, is one of the best parts of management—when you can say, “Wow, that’s amazing. You did that better than I ever imagined it could be done. Bravo. Thank you. Look at this new capability my team now has!”

To your and your team's greater capability,


Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
SMART DEVELOPMENT

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Interested in learning how to develop your organization's leadership capability, culture, and employee engagement? We begin with a collaborative discovery process identifying your unique needs and business issues. To request an interview with Peter Mclees please 

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Smart Development has an exceptional track record helping service providers, ports, energy storage, facility services & maintenance, sales teams, restaurants, stores, distribution centers, food production facilities, wealth management services,  real estate services, nonprofits, government agencies and other businesses create a strong culture, leadership bench strength, coaching skills and the teamwork necessary for growth.

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Friday, May 9, 2025

How to Transform Your Life During Times of Great Uncertainty

   


A mentor of mine has been following a disciplined mindfulness practice for more than 15 years. He says it has helped him stay calm, clear and focused on the present moment.

It shows. Although he has a mountain of responsibilities, I’ve rarely seen him looking stressed out or anxious.

I thought he was onto to something. So, I began a mindfulness practice myself. I've be doing mindfulness exercises for 12 years and found them to be beneficial on many levels.
 
Why is mindfulness practice so helpful?

Because the present moment is really all we have. There was never a time when your life wasn’t not now, nor will there ever be. Your life is and always be “this moment.”

The odd thing about this realization is that it is both bone-crushingly obvious and, at the same time, seldom acknowledged.

Each day we’re caught up in our own personal dramas. We struggle to meet the deadline, finish the project, make the appointment, pick up the kids, drop off the car, stop at the bank, visit the folks, plan the dinner…driving around, we are swept up in the recollections of the past or more likely, endless planning and worrying about the future.

By living in a state of distraction, we deny ourselves the only time we have to be fully present. Right now.

Trust me, you cannot savor your Asian chicken salad with the water chestnuts and sliced tangerines (Or a deep-fried pork sandwich and a side of curly fries) if you’re worrying about next week’s budget meeting. Nor can you enjoy your afternoon by the lake with your grandson if you’re talking on your device or fuming about something you saw on a news feed.

You can only appreciate the good things in your life when you’re fully present. Doing this allows you to minimize your negatives, too.

All of us face situations that are depressing, frustrating, or maddening. Yet, more often than not, our anxieties are the result of our own faulty thinking. It may be tough to admit, but it is our mindset—rather than the situation itself—that creates the negative emotions.

As Shakespeare wrote, “There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking make it so.” Truly, it is our thoughts that torment us, not our problems.

Some may disagree. After all if you have a child with a serious drug addiction or a parent that is dying of cancer, the problem isn’t in your mind. It’s real.

But there are only two kinds of bad situations in the world: those that can be solved and those that can’t. If you have a situation that can be solved, get busy fixing it. If you have one that can’t, get busy accepting it.

After all, your thoughts determine your happiness. The good news is that you can control them. That’s the power behind Reinhold Niebuhr’s well-known Serenity Prayer:

God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can; and Wisdom to know the difference.

Incidentally, while Niebuhr wrote this prayer roughly 85 years ago, there is an Irish rhyme dating back to 1695 that expresses a remarkably similar sentiment:

For every ailment under the sun,
There is a remedy, or there is none:
If there be one, try to find it;
If there be none, never mind it.

But when something truly sad or tragic happens, how do you keep from minding it? There is no easy answer to this one. Some wounds only time can heal. But returning to the present moment can help.

As Eckhart Tolle wrote in The Power of Now, “Narrow your life down to this moment. Your life situation may be full of problems—most life situations are—but find out if you have any problem at this moment. Not tomorrow or in ten minutes, but now. Do you have a problem now?”

Tolle says it’s impossible to feel troubled when your attention is full in the Now. You have situations that need to be dealt with or accepted—yes. But only worries about the future or regrets about the past can turn into personal quagmires.

Skeptics may argue that altering your thinking doesn’t change the problem, just your perception of it. But that’s the magic of it. Higher awareness is often that prelude to a solution.

Tolle says, “Accept—then act. Whatever the present moment contains, accept is as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, no against it. Make it your friend and ally, not your enemy. This will miraculously transform your whole life.”

How do you get started? Ironically, by becoming conscious of your lack of consciousness—something the majority of us never do—you take the first step toward an elevated state of mind. Your ability to enjoy your life, and deal successfully with your problems, increases the moment you become fully present.

Beware though. I found that living in the present moment means abandoning your old ways of thinking. In the present moment there is no judging, cherishing your opinions, or nurturing discontent.

It means slowing down. Relaxing. Focusing on your breath. Listening to the breeze. Or just taking a good look around.

You have the opportunity to enhance your life simply by choosing where to direct your attention. Where should that be?

Right here. Right now.

“The past is history, the future’s a mystery, today’s a gift, that’s why it’s called the present.”

Check these related posts: 
 
 
 

To your greater success and equanimity.


Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
SMART DEVELOPMENT

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Having worked with several companies throughout their growth cycle, we have valuable insights and strategies that would help any late stage startup, small or medium sized company achieve sustained growth and prosperity.

Sunday, May 4, 2025

Moving the Needle When Participating In A Company-Sponsored Learning Event

 

 




 

 

 


What is your goal when you attend a company-sponsored Summit, leadership training, conference, seminar, or webinar?

Is it a life-changing idea or insight, or something else?

I have experienced the big aha-moments in all those settings, and that is wonderful. But that is a high bar.

I’ve also heard people be a bit cynical after and even before a session saying things like “I knew most of that material,” or “there wasn’t much new here.”

Light-bulb moments are wonderful. But attending learning events focused only on the big, new ideas will keep you from getting the most from those opportunities.

Focus on moving the needle. Learning and growing by 1%.

Going from 0-60 is great but moving the needle from 40 to 45 and creating a new average or base line is more realistic and can have a huge impact on your long-term performance and success.

The big insight is a bonus, but moving the needle to a new level – even if the change is small – can change everything.

Look for the little gains. When you look for them, you are more likely to find them – and added together, they will change everything for the better.  Small differences accumulate into significant competitive advantages.

Whether during a leadership training class or just going through your workday – look for ways to move the needle today.

Check out two related posts:

 The Two Most Important Lessons Every Leader Should Learn  (5 min read)

The Ability to Shift Your Mindset is A Superpower (3 min read)

Stay curious, stay hungry,


Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
SMART DEVELOPMENT

 

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Smart Development has an exceptional track record helping service providers, ports, sales teams, restaurants, stores, distribution centers, food production facilities, wealth management services, facilities and energy management,  real estate services, nonprofits, government agencies and other businesses create a strong culture, leadership bench strength, coaching skills and the teamwork necessary for growth.

Having worked with several companies throughout their growth cycle, we have valuable insights and strategies that would help any late stage startup, small or medium sized company achieve sustained growth and prosperity.

Having worked with several companies throughout their growth cycle, we have valuable insights and strategies that would help any late stage startup, small or medium sized company achieve sustained growth and prosperity.

 


 

Friday, May 2, 2025

Get More Out of Your Free Time

 

Leader's Digest: Tip of Day

If you’re feeling exhausted every Monday morning, the problem might not be how much free time you have on the weekend, but how you use it. Instead of defaulting to passive activities, try “leisure crafting”: a more intentional approach to your free time that improves your well-being—and even boosts your work performance.

Identify activities that really energize you.
Leisure crafting isn’t about changing your hobbies—it’s about changing your mindset around them. Bring a goal to the table. For example, if you love watching movies, consider starting a film club with the goal of strengthening your friendships around a shared passion for cinema.

Be specific.
Avoid vague ambitions like “I want to be a more knowledgeable baker.” Instead, define concrete, trackable steps—like baking a new loaf of bread from your favorite cookbook each week. Start small, and scale up only if it energizes you.

Hold yourself accountable—and adjust when needed. T
rack your progress in a journal and stay disciplined by scheduling your leisure time in advance. But don’t let your goals become burdens. If something starts feeling like work, tweak it. Leisure should be restorative, not exhausting.

 To your greater well-being,


Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
SMART DEVELOPMENT

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Having worked with several companies throughout their growth cycle, we have valuable insights and strategies that would help any late stage startup, small or medium sized company achieve sustained growth and prosperity.

 

Tuesday, April 29, 2025

8 Great Quotes to Send to Your Oldest Friends

Dancing With Old Friends Keeps You Young at Heart

 

 

 

 

 

 

The enduring bonds of long friendships often start out as simple connections. Whether they’re forged in childhood, at school, at work, or through mutual connections or hobbies, those connections evolve into something deeper over time, fortified by shared memories, laughter, tears, and countless conversations.

These long-lasting friendships can feel like priceless treasures, but they also require effort. Maintaining contact, making time for one another, and celebrating milestones together are essential — as is allowing space when other aspects of our lives inevitably demand our attention.

I've gathered 8 great quotes to send to your oldest friends.

"Old friends are the great blessing of one's latter years — half a word conveys one's meaning."
~Horace Walpole

"When we’re together the years fall away. Isn’t that what matters? To have someone who can remember with you? To have someone who remembers how far you’ve come?"
~Judy Blume 

"A good friend is a connection to life — a tie to the past, a road to the future, the key to sanity in a totally insane world."
~Lois Wyse

"We have been sad together, / We have wept, with bitter tears / O’er the grass-grown graves, where slumber’d / The hopes of early years. / … / We have been sad together — / Oh! what shall part us now?"
~Caroline Elizabeth Sarah Norton 

"We could fight and wrangle and name-call, but it didn’t change anything underneath. She was still my oldest friend. Is."
~Margaret Atwood 

"The best kind of laughter is laughter born of a shared memory."
~Mindy Kaling

"Are not all lifelong friendships born at the moment when at last you meet another human being who has some inkling … of that something which you were born desiring, and which, beneath the flux of other desires and in all the momentary silences between the louder passions … from childhood to old age, you are looking for, watching for, listening for?"
~C.S. Lewis 

“We’ll be friends forever, won’t we, Pooh?” asked Piglet. “Even longer,” Pooh answered."
~A.A. Milne

Although life’s challenges can test the strength of these bonds, true friends weather the storms together. In the end, long friendships endure because they give us roots, keep us grounded, and, of course, infuse our lives with joy, support, and a sense of belonging. They remind us that human connections are invaluable, and with care, they can last a lifetime.

 I am deeply grateful for all my enduring friendships.


Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
SMART DEVELOPMENT

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Smart Development has an exceptional track record helping service providers, ports, sales teams, restaurants, stores, distribution centers, food production facilities, wealth management services, energy storage and third-party maintenance providers, real estate services, nonprofits, government agencies and other businesses create a strong culture, leadership bench strength, coaching skills and the teamwork necessary for growth.

Sunday, April 27, 2025

It’s Time to Take the 'Feedback Sandwich' Off the Management Menu


 

 

 

 

 

 

If you’ve given feedback lately, chances are you served up a praise sandwich: a slab of criticism tucked inside two slices of compliments. And while this form of feedback remains popular among managers, it’s hardly ever satisfying. 

It important to remember that a common management practice doesn’t mean it’s a best practice. The Gallup Management Journal reveals that only 1 in 10 are good managers. This means that many managers are still using common practices like the Praise Sandwich that don’t engage employees to consistently meet performance expectations.

Reasons A Praise Sandwich Will Give Everyone Indigestion

  • Praise sandwiches come across as insincere and make feedback less reliable.
  • It unsettles employees, who immediately brace for bad news once they detect an over-sweetened opening.
  • It's a crutch for the feedback giver who fears upsetting the receiver.
  • It’s confusing for the receiver to be praised, criticized, and praised. Think pat on the back, slap in the face, pat on the back. “What just happened?” is the reaction.
  •  If there's something important enough to engage in a conversation on changing or eliminating a behavior, why do you want to water it down?
  • If someone reacts negatively to well-developed behavioral input, you’ve got a bigger problem that a praise sandwich won’t fix.
  • People tend to remember the first things and last things they hear. Therefore, most important part of the feedback – the message in the middle –ends up getting diluted or ignored entirely.
And then there’s this one: “I want to let people know they are appreciated and doing a good job."
 
”That’s great! Just don’t feel compelled to give the praise in the same conversation you're discussing changing a particular behavior.

If a leader isn’t comfortable and competent at designing and conducting a well-developed behavioral feedback discussion, they need to focus on their personal development and give up their life as a caterer of praise sandwiches. And if individuals on your team aren’t comfortable receiving both positive and constructive feedback, you need to work on strengthening your feedback culture.

Positive Feedback is Essential—Don't Water It Down!

I’m a big fan of positive feedback if it is Behavioral, tied to Impact or performance, and specific enough so that the individual understands what they did that was positive and can do more of it.

Why do you need to include positive praise when offering input on behavior(s) that need to change to improve performance and results?

You don’t.

Give ample positive feedback when it is earned.

I encourage managers to strive for a 3:1 or greater positive to constructive feedback ratio. That’s hard to do. (Keep a daily log of your positive: constructive feedback ratio. You might be surprised that you need to work to get this heading in the right direction.)

If you’re giving positive feedback and everyone is on the same page about the importance of feedback in the working environment, don’t feel compelled to blend praise and constructive input in the same discussion.

The Bottom-Line

The Praise Sandwich is a crutch for poor feedback practices. If you are working hard to deliver timely, behavioral, specific, impact-focused feedback, and if your team members know that feedback is part of a healthy working environment, you don’t need to blur praise and constructive criticism. 

I encourage you to take the Praise Sandwich off your management menu. 

Click here to read a related post. Catch People Doing Something Right. (The Power of Praise) 5 min read.

To your greater success and fulfillment,


Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
SMART DEVELOPMENT

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