There are moments in life when we find ourselves sitting at a crossroads, unsure of which direction to take and weighed down by uncertainty. The world can feel overwhelming and the path forward murky, as if we're wandering through a thicket of doubts and questions. In these periods of confusion, it's easy to believe we have lost our way, to think we’ve strayed too far from where we once belonged. Yet feeling lost is not a failure; it’s often a necessary pause, a space in which we can listen more deeply to our needs, dreams, and the quiet voice within urging us onward.
So much of life revolves around setting goals or making plans, and then working gradually toward what we want. But sometimes we don’t know what we want — or how to get it. It’s normal to experience moments of feeling lost or directionless; whether we’ve just reached a longtime goal or had a big upheaval dropped into our laps, there are plenty of reasons we might not know our next move. One 2024 study reported that more than 75% of participants felt stuck in their personal and professional lives — so if we’re feeling lost, we’re not alone.
As author J.R.R. Tolkien wrote, “Not all those who wander are lost.” Whether we’ve been wandering for a little or a long while, all it takes is one decision to set us on a path again. These quotes about feeling lost will help you move, inch by inch, step by step, from drifting to a clear path forward.
"If you can’t do what you long to do, go do something else… You might think it’s procrastination, but — with the right intention — it isn’t; it’s motion. And any motion whatsoever beats inertia, because inspiration will always be drawn to motion."
~Elizabeth Gilbert, writer
"Not till we are lost, in other words, not till we have lost the world, do we begin to find ourselves."
~Henry David Thoreau
"I
think that you find your own way… In the end, it’s what feels right to
you… Not what anybody else told you but the still, small voice."
~Meryl Streep
"You didn’t just find a self out there waiting — you had to make one. You had to create who you wanted to be."
~Brit Bennett, writer
"Any action is often better than no action… If it is a mistake, at least you learn something, in which case it’s no longer a mistake. If you remain stuck, you learn nothing."
~Eckhart Tolle
"The first step toward transforming your life into art is to start paying more attention to it."
~Austin Kleon, author
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin has to be shed before the new one can come."
~Joseph Campbell
"The risk of a wrong decision is preferable to the terror of indecision."
~Maimonides, philosopher
"You still have a lot of time to make yourself be what you want. There’s still lots of good in the world."
~S.E. Hinton, writer
When
I feel lost and can’t make a decision, I just stop and get quiet. I
take a time-out. I ask myself, “How does this feel? What do I want my
life to be like?”
~Kim Cattrall
When everything familiar fades into the background, we are invited to reimagine our story, to ask ourselves what truly matters and where our heart wishes to go next. Sometimes, the discomfort of being lost is the fertile ground from which new inspiration and resilience can grow. The journey from uncertainty to purpose isn’t always sudden or dramatic. It unfolds gradually, with each new insight, encounter, or small act of courage shining a light on the next step.
I hope you find greater joy, peace, and illumination wherever you are.
Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
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