Resiliency is a skill that resides within each of us, though it often
requires setbacks in order to fully activate. It’s the ability to
withstand adversity — to recover emotionally when life deals its blows.
The old adage “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade” comes to mind;
resilience largely depends on our attitude and mental stamina when
confronted with challenging times.
The good news is that
resilience is a skill that can be developed over time — in fact, that
has been scientifically proven to be the case. Studies
at the Yale School of Medicine found that the brain is a muscle that
can be trained to be more resilient over time. The difference between
tending to buckle under pressure and being able to bounce back is
related to community, mindfulness, and exercise, among other factors.
According to the research, people who are resilient tend to have vast
social networks to fall back on, engage in regular physical activity
(exercise has been known to decrease stress), and practice keeping their
minds trained on the present moment.
It can be strengthening to
remember that when we experience setbacks and challenges, our ability to
bounce back can act as an inspiration to other folks who might be going
through tough times. Below, I've rounded up 15 quotes that speak to
the benefits of resilience, and the importance of finding our way back
up after getting knocked down.
“Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising every time we fall.”
Confucius
“Do not judge me by my successes, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again.”
Nelson Mandela
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
Maya Angelou
“Someone
said adversity builds character, but someone else said adversity
reveals character. I'm pleasantly surprised with my resilience. I
persevere, and not just blindly. I take the best, get rid of the rest,
and move on, realizing that you can make a choice to take the good.”
Brooke Shields
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.”
Samuel Beckett
“Resilience
is accepting your new reality, even if it’s less good than the one you
had before. You can fight it, you can do nothing but scream about what
you’ve lost, or you can accept that and try to put together something
that’s good.”
Elizabeth Edwards, attorney
“Enthusiasm is common. Endurance is rare.”
Angela Lee Duckworth, author
“Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.”
Helen Keller
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”
Winston Churchill
“If your heart is broken, make art with the pieces.”
Shane Koyczan, poet
“The human capacity for burden is like bamboo — far more flexible than you’d ever believe at first glance.”
Jodi Picoult
“You're going to spend your life getting up one more time than when you get knocked down. So start getting used to it.”
John Wayne
“Turn your wounds into wisdom.”
Oprah Winfrey
When
life knocks you down, try to land on your back. Because if you can look
up, you can get up. Let your reason get you back up.”
Les Brown, motivational speaker
“Grief and resilience live together.”
Michelle Goldwyn
A
difficulty that almost breaks a person's spirit can be turned into one
of the best things that ever happened to them. It is all up to you and your attitude and your willingness to expand the
repertoire of available reactions will determine how well you thrive in this volatile, uncertain, complex and ambiguous world.
Click here to learn tips for building resilience. Click here to discover how to transform your life during challenging times.
I invite you to initiate an attitude boosting exercise with your work group using the quotes by:
1) Emailing this post to your team.
2)
Asking team members to select a quote that resonates the most.
(Alternative: team members find a quote they like related to overcoming
adversity that's not listed in this post.)
3) Sharing what the quote means to them during a team meeting.
Building resiliency doesn't happen automatically. It requires deliberate practice and reinforcement.
To your greater success and fulfillment,
Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
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