It seems to me that most people like to sink their teeth into a great quote. The fifty quotes I’ve listed have impacted my thinking and personal development. The quotes come from a variety of sources including philosophers, playwrights, statesmen, poets, scientists, artists, authors, inventors, business people, spiritual teachers, athletes, activists, adventurers, musicians, and journalists.
I could have
included a hundred quotes easily gleaned from a google search. But I wanted to explain
why I thought the quote was great. The quotes are in random order. I did have
an idea to list them 1-50 in order of their greatness, but soon realized that
would be an impossible task.
I’d suggest
you dip into this from time to time rather than just reading it as you would a
normal book and then leaving it alone. If you have a day when things aren’t
going quite according to plan or you feel less than inspired, open this up and
I’m sure you’ll spot a quote in no time that will get you back on track. I’m
sure my list is missing some of your favorite quotes. If so, I’d
suggest you list quotes and write down what they mean to you.
I really
hope you enjoy the quotes and my comments. Feel free to forward on to any
friends, family members, colleagues or direct reports you think may get some
benefit.
1. “Those who cannot change their
minds cannot change anything.”
– George Bernard Shaw
Apparently
it’s statesmanlike to stand firm and not change your mind. It’s also idiotic to ignore new evidence and
refuse to admit you may have been wrong with your first conclusion. Your brain
actually hates to be wrong and it sets off a series of chemical responses that don’t feel good at all.
It takes courage to ignore those feelings and admit your mistake.
We all get
stuff wrong, just admit it when you do and move on with your newfound insight.
2. “Until one is committed, there is hesitancy,
the chance to draw back. Concerning all
acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance
of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one
definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too.
All sorts of things occur to help one
that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from
the decision, raising in one‟s
favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material
assistance, which no man could have dreamed would
have come his way.
Whatever you can do, or dream you can
do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”
– William H Murray
– William H Murray
This is
often mistakenly attributed to Goethe when it really just came from a Goethe
couplet and is presumed to have been said in full by Scottish Mountaineer, W. H. Murray, although that is not 100% certain.
Is there are
greater quote on the importance of commitment? I doubt it.
3.”Always do what you are afraid to do.”
– Ralph Waldo Emerson
– Ralph Waldo Emerson
Presuming
you don’t take this too literally and decide to strip naked, rub yourself down
with fish guts and go teasing Grizzly
Bears in mating season, this is a
fantastic quote. The reality is speaking in front of large audiences scares me,
but I still do it and boy am I glad every time I do, that I didn’t succumb to
my fears.
Fear is ok, it’s just an emotion and you’re unlikely to die from being scared, but every time you do something that scares you, you widen your comfort zone and it’s less likely to scare you as much next time.
4. “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence,
therefore, is not an act but a habit”
– Aristotle
Malcolm Gladwell in his brilliant book, “Outliers” talked
about the growing realization in science that few people are born gifted.
That
it takes time (thought to be about 10,000 hours) and persistence to be
world class at anything. It seems
Aristotle beat Gladwell to the punch by about 2,000 years or so. You can be
great, you just have to stick with whatever it is you want to be great at.
5. “A
small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it’s the only
thing that ever has”
– Margaret Mead
– Margaret Mead
Another oft
cited quote and one that inspires people (or at least should do) to believe
they really do have more power than they could ever imagine. Don’t think you
are powerless because you’re not.
6.“What you think of yourself is much more
important than what others think of you”
– Seneca
– Seneca
If only you
knew how often I try to impress this belief on clients. So many people get
wrapped up in trying to make other people like them, that they forget to like themselves.
In other words, they give away their personal power and their happiness is then
dependent on the good opinion of others.
It shouldn’t
be.
7. “Success consists of going from failure to
failure without loss of enthusiasm”
– Winston Churchill
There are so
many quotes regarding the importance of failure in being successful, but in my
opinion, this is the best. We ALL fail from time to time and the more you fail
the more likely you are to succeed.
As long that
is, you don’t drag your bottom lip around on the floor all the time bemoaning
the fact that things aren’t going your way. During tough
times, I've found it helpful to reflect on another insightful quote from Robert Kiyosaki, “You either win or you learn.” So learn
from the set back and move ahead a little wiser.
8. “You must be the change you wish to see in
the world”
– Gandhi
– Gandhi
I almost
left this out because it’s been done to death and it possibly the most
well-known quote in the universe. But there’s a good reason for that, and
that’s because it’s deeply profound.
You cannot
ever change anybody else; you can only change yourself and hope you inspire
other people to do the same.
9. “Many of
life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success
when they gave up”
– Thomas Edison
– Thomas Edison
Three years
ago I had a client that I knew was really close to making a huge breakthrough
when she lost her nerve. The fact that I’m telling you about it know demonstrates how frustrated as a Coach I was. There is a time for giving up and a time for pushing through, even
though the latter can sometimes be scary.
10. “Man can alter his life by altering his
thinking”
– William James
– William James
There is an
amazing, if possibly apocryphal story about the father of modern psychology.
Apparently he agreed to be the keynote speaker at a major conference on
psychology. This was a rare event and people travelled from all over the country
looking forward to hearing the great man deliver his pearls of wisdom.
At the
appointed time he walked up to the lectern, stood for a moment surveying
the audience and then said
“The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter
his life by altering his attitudes” He
then apparently walked off stage, out of the building and back home, leaving everybody
confused and pretty angry.
He was right
though and if you are not inspired to know that you can improve the quality
of your life by improving the quality of your thinking, then you’re reading the
wrong eBook.
11. “We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop
playing”
– George Bernard Shaw
– George Bernard Shaw
I hit 50 a
while ago and it seems incomprehensible to me. I still get excited about work,
I still love to play and as I type this I have loud music playing in
the background.
Don’t stop
being young because your birth certificate tells you too.
12. “If I gave people what they wanted I’d have designed
a faster horse”
– Henry Ford
– Henry Ford
This may
well never have actually been said by Ford, it may just be an apocryphal quote,
but we don’t care, do we, because it makes a brilliant point? Sometimes you
have to step outside the box and take chances that don’t necessarily sit with
conventional wisdom.
13. “You will not be
punished for your anger; you will
be punished by your anger”
– Buddha
Is there any
need to explain this? Probably not because we all know how bad we feel when
we‟re angry. So let it go and don‟t feel bad.
14. “Happiness depends more on the inward
disposition of mind than on outward circumstances”
– Benjamin Franklin
– Benjamin Franklin
You know
that money and material things don’t make you happy for any length of
time. That’s because they are extrinsic,
and just because the Declaration of Independence got it wrong by suggesting we
need to pursue happiness, thus suggesting it’s external, doesn’t mean you have
to too.
Happiness
is intrinsic, meaning it‟s
always within you.
People have a predisposition to
be more happy or unhappy through genetics, but that only makes up about 50% of
the story, the rest is about your determination to be happy.
15. “Life is what happens while you are busy
making other plans”
– John Lennon
Doesn’t that
sum up many people you know, maybe even yourself? Are you so busy planning
what’s next, that you forget that now is already here? Planning is crucial of
course, but so is enjoying the only time you ever have; now.
16. “No one can make you feel inferior without your
consent”
– Eleanor Roosevelt
Every
feeling you have is generated internally as a reaction (usually) to external
events. It is your interpretation of events that gives them meaning, not the
events themselves. How liberating is that? To know that people can only hurt
you if you allow them to.
Of course,
you have to believe it first.
17. “Twenty years from now you will be more
disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off
the bowlines, Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your
sails. Explore. Dream.”
– Mark Twain
– Mark Twain
Yes, yes,
and three times yes. So many people try to avoid disappointment by reigning in their
hopes and dreams. It certainly can help avoid any short-term failure, but it
pretty much guarantees a lifetime of “what
ifs” and that's not
something I would wish on anybody.
18. “A ship is safe in the harbor, but that is not
what a ship was built for.”
– William H Shedd
Another
quote that may not be attributed to the right person, but who cares who said
it, it’s still great. You can hide yourself away from the world, you can
avoid doing anything risky or out there, but that’s not what you were put on this earth to do. You were
put here to be the best person you can be and that means taking risks by
hauling anchor and sailing out into the uncharted open sea from time to time.
19. “Watch
your thoughts, they become words. Watch your words, they become actions. Watch your
actions, they become habits. Watch your habits, they become your
character. Watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”
–
Author unknown although sometimes attributed to Frank Outlaw.
I don’t
think this needs any explanation other than you become what you think about, so
be careful what you think about.
20. “Judge a man by his questions rather than
his answers”
–Voltaire
–Voltaire
The quality
of your life is dictated by the quality of questions you ask not just others,
but yourself too. Questions like “Why
does this always happen to me?” will not improve the quality of your life. Ask
great questions and prepare yourself for some great answers!
21. “It is the
mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting
it”
– Aristotle
– Aristotle
Most people
I know like to think they are open-minded.
Yet if you cannot entertain thoughts that contradict your belief system,
how open-minded can you truly claim to be?
22. “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves.”
– Robert Anton Wilson
Taken from the
absolutely great book, “Prometheus Rising,” Wilson sums up in a sentence
something we do, which is to look for evidence to support the beliefs we
already hold rather than questioning them.
23. “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says
“I’m possible!”
– Audrey Hepburn
– Audrey Hepburn
How cool is
that? Next time you tell yourself something is impossible, try using this and
see if you think differently because, physical limitations notwithstanding,
pretty much everything is possible.
24. “There is no how it is, only how it is for
you.”
– Peter Mclees
– Peter Mclees
Holy mackerel,
can you believe the audacity of the man to include one of his own quotes? Does
his arrogance know no bounds!
Seriously
though, I love it because it gets to the heart of self-development. Too many
gurus want to tell you their way is the way. They’re wrong, don’t listen to
them.
If getting
up at 5.00am in the morning doesn’t suit you, don’t do it.
If goal setting leaves you feeling deflated, don’t set any, and if reading eBooks with inspiring quotes in it doesn’t inspire you, stop reading right now! Find out what works best for you and then do it! Better still hire a Coach and get help doing it!
If goal setting leaves you feeling deflated, don’t set any, and if reading eBooks with inspiring quotes in it doesn’t inspire you, stop reading right now! Find out what works best for you and then do it! Better still hire a Coach and get help doing it!
25. “People often say that motivation doesn’t
last. Well, neither does bathing – that’s why we recommend it daily.”
– Zig Ziglar
– Zig Ziglar
Mr. Ziglar
nails it with this one. Self-development is like going to the gym. Nobody gets
fit by going to the gym once; it’s a daily or weekly ritual. Self-development
is the same, you have to work on it, if that is the case, you really want to
master it.
26. “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
– Wayne Gretzky
– Wayne Gretzky
Guess what?
If you don’t write that eBook you have been thinking of, you have failed. If
you don’t ask for the order you have failed. And if you don’t ask for that date
for fear of rejection, you have failed.
Failure isn’t
missing, failure is never trying.
27. “I am the greatest, I said that even before
I knew I was.”
– Muhammad Ali
– Muhammad Ali
That is a
classic fake it till you make it or as
it is sometimes called “The act as if frame." Your brain struggles
to tell the difference between fact and fiction, which is why visualization is
such a powerful tool.
Telling
yourself you can do something and truly getting behind that belief can lift you
to heights you previously thought of as being unattainable.
Note of
caution: Be judicious with this. Do not pretend to be a brain surgeon when
you’ve never been to medical school, and don’t tell yourself you’ll win
American Idol by a landslide if you have the voice that would shame a frog.
That’s being delusional.
28. “Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a
very persistent one.”
– Albert Einstein
– Albert Einstein
Look if the
great man himself says reality isn’t real, who are you to argue? Go and set
your own reality and don’t allow other people (including the media) to impose
theirs upon you, because they will, if you let them.
29. “You will never change your life until you
change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your
daily routine.”
– John C. Maxwell
– John C. Maxwell
Small
incremental change, or Kaizen as the Japanese call it is the way to go. Small
change really does add up and the saying that people over estimate what they
can achieve in a week and underestimate what they can achieve in a year, is so
true.
English Author Graham Greene wrote a lot of books, but did you know he only ever wrote 500 words per day. No more, no less, he would even stop mid-sentence. He seemed to do ok for himself, so what could you introduce into your daily regime that will make you glad you did in a years’ time? Check out our article on How to Establish New Habits.
30. “This too shall pass.”
– Anonymous
– Anonymous
This
possibly came from the Sufi poets but nobody really knows for sure and it
doesn’t really matter. The way of life is change. Good times come and good
times go. Bad times come and bad times go. If we can remain relaxed in the
knowledge that we’ll deal with the change that comes our way, so much the
better. If you are going through tough times at the moment, know that they won’t
go on forever.
31. “I am always doing that which I cannot do,
in order that I may learn how to do it.”
– Pablo Picasso
Nobody strides onto the first tee and drives a ball 300 yards down the middle of the fairway the first time they ever play golf. Nobody reads a book on a foreign language and becomes instantly fluent. And nobody picks up a Violin for the first time and knocks out a flawless rendition of Vaughan Williams’ “The Lark Ascending.”
Go and do stuff
that you can’t do because that is the only true way of pushing yourself to the
limits and eventually you will be able to it and I guarantee you’ll be proud of
yourself.
32. “I visualize things in my mind before I do them. It’s like having a mental
workshop.”
– Jack Youngblood
– Jack Youngblood
Jack wasn’t
just a terrific football player for the LA Rams, he was also deceptively wise.
We know for a fact visualization improves performance, but we also know very
few people utilize it.
33. “It’s
perfect and it stinks.”
–
Ram Dass
What this
means (I think) is realizing that you and I exist on more than one plane of
awareness simultaneously and on one plane suffering stinks, and on another
plane suffering is grace in that we learn and grow from it. The question is,
“Can we balance those two things in our consciousness?”
34. “Whether you think you can or think you can’t,
you’re right.”
– Henry Ford
– Henry Ford
Belief in
yourself is so important and often the determiner in how successful you are in
life. Believe in yourself because you’re a human being with incredible
endowments!
35. “One of
the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is to believe that one’s works
is terribly important.”
– Bertrand Russell
– Bertrand Russell
Think of
what you do for a living. How important is it in the great scheme of things?
How important is it compared to your family, your health, and your happiness? I’d
guess it’s not even close, unless that is, you are His Holiness The Dalai Lama
in which case I give you permission to ignore this quote.
36. “There is nothing either good or bad, but
thinking makes it so”
– Shakespeare (from Hamlet)
– Shakespeare (from Hamlet)
Another quote that perfectly sums up
the fact that we determine our own reality by how we decide to view things.
Things, people and events aren’t good or bad in and of themselves. It’s the meaning
we attach to them through thought that makes them so.
Was Bill
Shakespeare the world’s first reframer?
37. “Gratitude is a vaccine, an antitoxin, and an
antiseptic.”– John Henry Jowett
Did you know
it’s almost impossible to be feeling down and grateful at the same time? That
the moment you shift your attention on to what you have rather than what you
don’t have, your body responds accordingly.
Imagine I
asked you to throw your birth certificate into a very big hat that contains the
birth certificate of every other person on the planet. Then once you had done that
and I’d given them a good mix you had to pull out a birth certificate at random, would you want
to?
My guess is
no, and as such that tells me you have stuff to be grateful about!
38. “It’s not hard to make decisions when you
know what you’re values are”
– Roy Disney
Woo-baby! Walt's brother knew a thing or too and he
nailed this one. If you have read much of my blog or have worked with me, you
will know my absolute conviction that if we don’t know our own values we cannot
truly know ourselves.
Your values
drive every aspect of your life and your life is always going to be a tad hit
or miss until you fully understand them. Do you?
39. “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes
courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow’” – Mary-Anne Rademacher
One failure
is all many people need to give up. One, “no‟, one set back, one missed target,
one rejection. The courageous and determined push through though with belief
and commitment.
40. “As long as your’re going to be thinking anyway, think big.”
– Tony Schwartz
– Tony Schwartz
Too many
people reign in their thinking because they just want to be “realistic” and to
avoid the disappointment of aiming high and missing. Unfortunately about the
only thing that approaches guarantees is a lifetime of unfulfilled dreams and
long-term disappointment that is exponentially worse than that of a short-term
failure.
Momentary dopamine crash notwithstanding, aiming for 20 and getting to 18 is better than aiming for 5 and hitting it!
41. “Life is either a daring adventure or
nothing.”
– Helen Keller
– Helen Keller
This is one
of my favorite quotes because of its simplicity. If you aren’t pushing yourself,
scaring yourself and testing yourself then you really aren’t living to your
potential and there’s a good chance you
are going to feel unfulfilled.
How amazing would your life be if you could see it as a daring adventure each and every day?
42. “I have not failed. I've just found 10,000
ways that won't work.”
– Thomas Edison
– Thomas Edison
I love
reframing and this quote is the greatest reframe in history in my opinion.
Reframing is possibly the single best skill I can teach any client because it
then gives them complete control over their lives and the ability to see things
how they want to.
43. “A man can fail many times. but he isn’t a
failure until he begins to blame somebody else.”
– John Burroughs
– John Burroughs
At the heart
of self-development is the willingness to take control of our lives and to
admit responsibility if things aren’t going according to plan. This does NOT
mean beating yourself up, but it does mean refusing to be a victim by blaming
your situation on outside forces.
44. “To avoid criticism, do nothing, say
nothing, be nothing.”
– Elbert Hubbard
– Elbert Hubbard
Many people
are terrified of criticism and will often keep their head down and go with the
flow for fear of being on the receiving
end of it. The world doesn’t need
that; speak your mind more often. If people don’t like you for being you, then
why would you want to please them by pretending to be somebody else?
45. “If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed
just one.”
– Mother Theresa
– Mother Theresa
Have you
ever heard the story about the little girl throwing starfish into the sea?
There has been a huge storm and the beach is covered with thousands of the stranded
little fellas.
The girl is approached by a man who inquires as to what she is doing? She explains she is throwing them back and when the guy aghast at her naiveté and pointing to the endless stretch of starfish says, “You can’t possibly make a difference” With that the girl tosses one back into the ocean and says, “Well I made a difference to that one”
The girl is approached by a man who inquires as to what she is doing? She explains she is throwing them back and when the guy aghast at her naiveté and pointing to the endless stretch of starfish says, “You can’t possibly make a difference” With that the girl tosses one back into the ocean and says, “Well I made a difference to that one”
You too can
make a difference; if that is, you want to.
46. “There is no comparison between that which is
lost by not succeeding and that which is lost by not trying”
– Francis Bacon
– Francis Bacon
I know this
one is similar in tone with a few other quotes but I think it’s worth repeating
that failure is not that big a deal (Unless you’re an airplane pilot attempting
to land a plane successfully).
47. “If you
want to build a ship, don't drum up people to collect wood and don't assign
them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of
the sea.”
– Antoine de St-Exupéry
– Antoine de St-Exupéry
This is
really a values based quote because it refers to intrinsic motivation. Most
people try to motivate themselves using extrinsic motivation like earning more
money, gaining a job promotion or buying a new house etc. There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as
it isn’t to the detriment of what really drives you from deep inside.
If you manage
people, take this quote to heart. Don’t wave huge bonuses at people if you want
to get the best out of them, find out what really drives them at a core level
and you will get much greater results.
48. “We can never judge the lives of others,
because each person knows only their own path and renunciation. It’s one thing
to think you are on the right path, but it’s another to think that yours is the
only path.”
– Paulo Coelho
– Paulo Coelho
If everybody
adopted this quote do you realize there would be no judging, no arrogant
people, no fundamentalism, no hatred and no wars. It would lead to more
understanding and the realization that we are all merely a product of our genes
and upbringing and as such, no better nor worse than anybody else. Not bad for
one little quote, eh?
49. “Procrastination is opportunities assassin”
– Victor Kiam
– Victor Kiam
How many
people have had great ideas and then failed to act on them immediately? Amazingly enough I have no idea, but my guess
is that its‟ somewhere between a boat load and a shitte load, and that’s a lot of people.
Everybody procrastinates from time to time, but if you’re going to do that, do it about emptying the dishwasher and not about launching that brilliant idea or starting that business that you know just can’t fail.
50. “Where you stumble there your treasure is”
– Joseph Campbell
“It seems a
farmer was out working in the field when his plow caught on something and it
wouldn’t budge. His first reaction, of course, was go into what I call Judger
mind. Cursing, he began digging around to free the plow. To his surprise, it
was caught on a ring buried deep in the ground.
After
freeing his plow, the farmer got curious and pulled on the iron ring. Off came
the lid of an ancient chest.
Before him, glittering in the sun, lay a
treasure of precious jewels and gold.”
This story reminds us that it is often
by confronting our greatest obstacles that we find our greatest strengths and possibilities
but sometimes you have to dig deep to find them.
Bonus # 51. “Be curious always, because knowledge will
not acquire you, you must acquire it.”
– Sudie Beck
Curiosity is
an incredible state to be in. You can’t be judging and curious and you probably
can’t be miserable as sin and be curious. Unless I guess you are curious as to
why you are as miserable as sin. 😉
Be more
curious!
I hope you've enjoyed these quotes and equally I hope you'll send me an email from
time to time! Also, as I said at the beginning, please feel free to forward it
on to somebody whose day it may brighten up.
To your greater fulfillment and success!
Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
To your greater fulfillment and success!
Peter Mclees, Leadership Coach, Trainer and Performance Consultant
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